Empathic Sufferings v.08

So I picked up where I left off of My Hero Academia series in Sushiroll and I watched the duel between Deku and Bakugo, in this duel Bakugo having gone through some serious ordeal, also had been suffering from an "Empathic suffering", which has became the reason for their duel. 

I'm not going to spoil the story so I'm going to continue to my own explanation of the Empathic suffering.

So suffering is useful in discipline not only to burn things in your memory, but upfront sufferings are useful to give a sense of improvement to your subconscious when next being required to change to a disciplined lifestyle (otherwise you'd just feel that the discipline is a net negative for your comfort throughout time). 

But sufferings don't have to be experienced directly all the time, they could be acquired through association (with pre-experienced sufferings), empathy with other people, empathy to your future self, giving thanks to your sources of solutions, etc, and of course the combination of them. 

Empathy is a very effective and efficient way of incorporating sufferings, but you got to watch out for things that you're empathetic about might be a story of lies. 

Empathy to your future self is like you saw the world is moving faster than you, or the person who was always behind you now accelerating much faster than you do, this might not be a very good indicator of your performance, but it is a point of consideration nonetheless. 

(Disclaimer: Everybody's situation is different so if you bask yourself in the wrong attitude, please don't, you'd scale up the mistake. So don't sweat yourself over other people's rapid or slow improvement, because human beings and their developments are seriously dangerous things to oversimplify). 

Having said that, when you perceived the people around you through the lens of your expertise, you could find indicators of what your future position is going to be. Whether it is bad or good, danger or opportunities, or both, you could derive ambitions out of that and from there the endurance needed to get into a discipline. 

Measure carefully the value of your sufferings compared to the discipline, if you haven't got enough then you haven't got enough, be honest to yourself and make policies accordingly.  

Edit: There's another important thing to notice too, if you still have access to the comfortable or fun stuff alternative to the discipline... still going to be a problem. What you can do is to oversaturate the fun so it became undesirable if its safe, and/or commit to not do it as a part of the discipline.

So the point of me saying this is... make the discipline the remedy of your sufferings not other things.

Plus in addition to successfully completing the discipline, the reward of the marathon should taste even more rewarding for your mind.

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Suffering through giving thanks:

The way this works for me is: Firstly I internalize this notion:

"The scarcity of the world is not of time nor energy nor money but of mutual solutions, solutions are unlimited but we are so limited because we are not giving back enough to our sources of solutions."

Now, this gets me started, then I would try to sacrifice some of my resources to try to solve the problems of the people who have solved my problems. In the end I would be left off with less resources... now all of the sufferings in my life after this, would be in the premise of "Because I gave thanks", Because I gave thanks I experience these difficulties, I could've made it easier if I had more... sure... but, now I'm a more of a positive part of the growth of the level of availability of mutual solutions in reality. My investment is in the positive, I'm interested in the betterment of the reality, I have acquired the seed of ambition... of the harmony of Justice. 

So now everytime there's something bad happening, I'm motivated by anger (suffering), there's something good happening, I'm refreshed, and then motivated by wanting to be a part of it (suffering), now the world is my suffering and my happiness. 

(Disclaimer: There's a humanly limit to sufferings at a time, if things were already beyond your grip, it is not something that I could understand nor it is something I know how to deduce making me qualified to imply everything here. What I know is when you win above it, something unique happened that is precious. That something is your original solution)

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Personally, for me, suffering is not something to be shared to other people (unless it was for something relevant). 

More than that suffering is not something to be experienced by other people, I hate policies that impose sufferings to other people. 

The prove of my suffering is in my performance