Melki Hassa's Blog

Just because you got what you deserve and others haven't, doesn't mean that you don't deserve it. Maybe you got only a fraction of what you deserve and others got the less fraction of theirs, doesn't mean that you don't deserve it all.  Just because someone didn't get as much as he deserved less than everybody else, doesn't mean that it's not evil already

In my opinion, the public should recognize adulthood as: 1. One who pledged to always prioritize justice in his/her conducts or interactions 2. Could be held responsible. Could be reasoned with. Meaning that the person has the ability to understand what rules are, and when someone was not being fair/just. So an adult is someone who has a good sense of justice always (since we are not perfect yet, we settle for common relativity for the sense of justice) ------------------------------------ Some people won't prioritize this, so they should not be allowed in public interactions. However inadequacy doesn't constitute unwillingness. So I felt it's fair to have people define their own parameters based on their own definitions of justice and reject people out of their collective properties. As long as their standards were not against the law or Justice itself. my definition of Justice: Justice is when everyone gets whatever they wanted and needed whenever they wanted or needed th

I had a conversation with my sister yesterday and I realized, I acted like I understood bullying, but I couldn't quite pin it down. What is bullying? Is it kept on doing what others disliked? But that's just friendship, or a part of friendship, or any human relationship.  Or was it doing what others clearly disliked up to a certain point of discomfort? Then is life bullying you everyday, or is it your untrained emotions? Or, is being bullied always mean being victimized, or you just got upset too easily... But then again the definition of bullying is where the problem is. Harmful bullying vs Acceptable bullying --------------- From professional definitions online, bullying is all about being harmful. So... Google searching, I should've done that before

It would be great if there was a tool (maybe with the help of A.I) to project risks in numbers and colors like the weather channel. So that people who contributed to the lowering of the risk, their contribution would be so blatant it is easier to reward them appropriately.  Currently people just tend to reward what is immidiate rather than what is wise. If risks of pandemic, wars, crimes, etc were greatly exposed to everybody, even better if we could filter local risks such as accidents or traffic jams, this would be the direction that could significantly increase the wisdom of the system including the rewarding mechanism if done well.

Why are you disciplining yourself, why are you denying your desire? When you've got what you wanted, or the worthiness of it changed, stop the discipline! Discipline must not be forever... the people you know might like you when you are disciplined, they might want what you could achieve, they might love you as a machine... but they don't love you as a self Pleasure might not be what defines you, but your pleasure is a part of yourself. Keep on denying yourself is self transforming, but why would you want to do that if you don't hate who you are? Everything has a purpose, everything that matters, physicall and spiritually.  If they don't then they'd be a part of the chaos (second law).  Why are you disciplining yourself, have you achieved what you are looking for, is it still worth it? Cause I might be witnessing a type of person who is capable of disciplining the self non-stop, a person who is just wired that way.  I'm worried... please... a person like that is

So I picked up where I left off of My Hero Academia series in Sushiroll  and I watched the duel between Deku and Bakugo, in this duel Bakugo having gone through some serious ordeal, also had been suffering from an "Empathic suffering", which has became the reason for their duel.  I'm not going to spoil the story so I'm going to continue to my own explanation of the Empathic suffering. So suffering is useful in discipline not only to burn things in your memory, but upfront sufferings are useful to give a sense of improvement to your subconscious when next being required to change to a disciplined lifestyle (otherwise you'd just feel that the discipline is a net negative for your comfort throughout time).  But sufferings don't have to be experienced directly all the time, they could be acquired through association (with pre-experienced sufferings), empathy with other people, empathy to your future self, giving thanks to your sources of solutions, etc, and of cou

I like the sound of: "A world where unpleasant words have little to no effect to the progress of Justice/Prosperity/Civilization in people" I think this angle has a lot of value to offer, given that other types of progress are queueing with businesses and workers to further the causes while this one is not.  Humor for example, Insult battles (Insulting rap battles), Gaming actually, Martial Arts, Competitive Sports, Fitness training, Forgiveness and Understanding (Communal Activities) like Support Groups, Podcasts, Psychological Therapy, Psychiatry,  Ok I see...  But, the hindrance of this... innuendos/disrespectful negotiations, lying flatteries, unjust/unfair reputational attacks Are underrated as dangerous patterns to propagate.  Should there be a law against them like other dangerous/malicious acts? Yes, but current law needs to be simplified and made more user friendly too, and that's also imperative, otherwise this would just be ignored. ----------------------- Anot