True responsibility came not from force but from freedom
People I think we should accept that we don't want to change or be influenced by just 1 source no matter how true or how objective the arguments might be.
Especially in this time of internet, don't blame yourself for not being able to follow all of the advice of your parents or mentor or anyone. Because its just natural for us to feel safe getting ideas from different sources.
But, it doesn't mean that it's useless to give an objective or truthful advice to the people that have helped you or to the people you love. The advice would be an explosive stored in their system and will keep building up, until that "fresh" source of idea chipped in and blew everything up.
Then you'll see a change of habit that's so permanent in nature.
Another thing,
When that bomb hasn't matured yet, it's going to be problematic for a person to bear a responsibility or responsibilities related to it. Just because you can logically at peace about it's necessity, doesn't mean you can get immersed into it. Sometimes it's useful to develop interests out of regular practices, however big responsibilities should not be taken lightly.
Another thing,
Curiosity is basic need, so I have to be strategic about it. Now I think that it might be a bad idea for me to read great books related to my area when I don't have the right position for significance. Say for example a student forced herself to read great books she only could extract little from, after she graduated it would be very beneficial for her to come back to that book and read again. But, the effect would be even bigger if she could read the book with curiosity. If the book was not really engaging, then arguably, she could've done better if she didn't read the book in the beginning.
Especially in this time of internet, don't blame yourself for not being able to follow all of the advice of your parents or mentor or anyone. Because its just natural for us to feel safe getting ideas from different sources.
But, it doesn't mean that it's useless to give an objective or truthful advice to the people that have helped you or to the people you love. The advice would be an explosive stored in their system and will keep building up, until that "fresh" source of idea chipped in and blew everything up.
Then you'll see a change of habit that's so permanent in nature.
Another thing,
When that bomb hasn't matured yet, it's going to be problematic for a person to bear a responsibility or responsibilities related to it. Just because you can logically at peace about it's necessity, doesn't mean you can get immersed into it. Sometimes it's useful to develop interests out of regular practices, however big responsibilities should not be taken lightly.
Another thing,
Curiosity is basic need, so I have to be strategic about it. Now I think that it might be a bad idea for me to read great books related to my area when I don't have the right position for significance. Say for example a student forced herself to read great books she only could extract little from, after she graduated it would be very beneficial for her to come back to that book and read again. But, the effect would be even bigger if she could read the book with curiosity. If the book was not really engaging, then arguably, she could've done better if she didn't read the book in the beginning.
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