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Let's say for an extreme example, there were a parent couple who gave their daughters "everything" and then they kind of expected that their daughter would not criticize them, gave them whatever they asked, and obeyed them all the time, and revered to them on top of that. 

Then they said my daughter is not living up to her potential, kind of indirectly ungrateful, secretly disrespectful, etc. 

Well to me, judging only from this simple point of view, this is to be expected because they weren't giving their daughter "everything", "everything" was a debt. She had little to none to own, and then little to none to offer. 

The feeling of inadequacy and poor quality out of their daughter came from the lack of quality of property she has, and she couldn't offer them a decent quality "services" or even "products". 

So the solution is you got to give people property, you just have to. The wisdom of the infrastructures that we are living on top of, democracy and capitalism, were not without reason. 

If she turned out to be an asshole, or even a psychopath/sociopath then that's lifetime worth of information. If she's a grateful child then it's genuine, and it's something to truly celebrate in perpetuity. Why would anyone rob themselves and their child out of that opportunity? Why not that compared to rationalizing that "Oh I should be grateful that she is not a suicide bomber" or something, or forcing one's self to "accept" it in whatever form it was? Be genuinely content with your life

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If I had an asshole kid, I'd probably tell him something like:

"Son, let's talk for a bit. This is about me, but also about you and everybody else in general. You always disrespectful towards your teachers, people who are working, at me... son this is not a good idea. What's good is for everybody to not do business with you, cause you're not being a good business"

Ok I'm suck at it maybe, but probably that delivers the point.

And after that you slap them, and hang them upside down in your basement... (joking)

The point is, what he owns he owns and he should be able to do whatever with it without me making it difficult for him owning what he owns. 

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