Is it Taboo? v.07

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I often see parents love their children so much they give access to their children to all kinds of things that they could afford at maximum. I'm not a psychologist nor I'm a parent, as someone who is just an enthusiast on many different things like accounting, business, psychology, art, etc... I conclude based on the materials I've observed that this way is better:

Parents are responsible for the life of their children, they must always make sure that the children is not depressed for the rest of their lives (by depressed I mean the person helplessly kept on wanting to die). The parents are the one who's responsible for that other than the child himself/herself. 

Providing just enough is better. If the kids wanted more, they had to "buy" it from their parents or their uncles/aunts or other people. However some people outside offered dangerous materials, obviously it's risky but all families would have or should have their own way of facing this. 

Coming from this, kids should have had the better kit in facing the reality of the outside world. Moreover having "just enough" is not really that bad actually, it could be interesting.

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There's utility in me spelling this out... the end logic of this is, or one end of the logic of this is: If the child did well in life, the parents would've contributed positively (mainly intellectually and/or philosophically) to the child. If he/she didn't, the parents would still be responsible parents, but contributed not more than that. This is relieving for the child because if he/she chose to live modestly, he/she wouldn't be living in "debt", supposedly.

There's nothing wrong with living modestly as long as you contributed positively instead of negatively. 

Now, even if your parents gave you everything and you didn't gave a lot of currency worth back, it's still contractually or personally ok given that that's the way it were in your family. The reality is, still, people estimated their own contributions highly. 

The society also often judgemental while not being careful about their judgements

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