Suggestion when dealing with the "Field" of Innuendo's or Hints or "Official Avoidance" Discussions v.03

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1. Do it for fun

2. There is no contract/agreement in it, is there a hypothetical husband... or hypothetical wife? If there were, was it an actual marriage?

3. Don't be so quick to get offended. When things get serious, seek verification first. This world is not clear, so no one should be obliged to be tied to their "supposed" hints. No one including the bullies. Many times it is going to be misunderstandings anyway. So back to no.1

4. Don't fight in it. You'll ruin it for everybody. 

5. Everyone can choose to participate or not to participate. You'd know a toxic community when they use innuendos for everything that is important. This is a sign for trying to avoid being clear most of the time. So already this is a red flag. No matter what, written law wants to be your friend. It is there, it is public domain, it is always available for everyone. People who always want to avoid that realm are trying to not be about it. 

Again no. 3, realize that some people made unintentional "hints" when concentrating on other things. When they are in an argument, they would be concentrating on the issue at hand, and during serious times in the world of clearness, we better disregard all innuendos. 

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Another thing, if you abuse this type of talking, you potentially will ruin your relationship in the future no matter how good you are doing currently. For example when you are in the same company with your friend, he/she could annoy you in a way that no one else would be able to counter balance or control. So you are giving power to whoever, to get into your inner circle anytime. Avoid doing this if you can at all times. 

Unfortunately now, we don't have means yet to stop people from doing this in public. I think we should, for the sake of the serenity of the people's mind, which at current times is sensitive in aggregate. And what is dire about this situation is, the quick way to restore alliance is to find enemies. So for the sake of peace in their world of unofficialness they would have a stronger tendency to gang up against a common enemy. 


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